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New York Women’s march 2018

The weather this weekend was beautiful, so I decided to go do some exploring on the Upper West Side. I had a list of a few spots in mind and I was determined to get it all done. As I mentioned recently in a previous article, the MTA is just a mess during the weekend, let alone when you have a protest march in town. You really have to be courageous and a little crazy to try to go anywhere. However, I had come too far, so as I made my way through the madding crowd at Colombus Circle, it wasn’t long before I figured out that I stumbled into the women’s march and that this would be an interesting experience. I decided to try to obverse the protest from a better vantage point at the top of the stairs of The Museum of Natural History on 81 street and Central Park West. From my left to right, I could see thousands and thousands of people. Women as well as men and lots and lots of children. Some people wore pink hat, some people wore rainbow hats. Everybody seemed to be carrying a protest sign against Donald Trump. This particular march in NYC was one of over 250 similar protest planned around the world this weekend.

I think it is important for me to take a moment to try to explain to you what is going on in the land of the American Dream. It is important to try to understand what is going on here, and how it affects our everyday life. Being an expatriate as well as permanent resident here, I do not have the right to vote. I totally understand why that is the case, but it doesn’t stop me from offering my opinion: this President is making everybody’s life a living hell. I normally do not talk about politics often if at all, because I personally think that politic like religion is a very personal and tough subject to discuss with people. They tend to get very emotional and irrational and it can literally ruin a friendship or family relationship.

When I arrived, I thought at the beginning the march was for the #MeToo movement. I’m sure you have all heard about this movement. Doesn’t matter where you are from or what your feelings are, it is obvious that there is a massive movement across the world to hold powerful men accountable for abusing women. As we all also know, this particular President is not immune from similar accusations.

However, while I  was there, I noticed that there were lots of signs about the Dreamers and immigrants that this President wants to exclude. The Dreamers, if you are not aware are children that were brought to America illegally by their parents when they were too small to have their own choice. There is no need to say that these children and families have tried to integrate into the society and build a life that they can be proud of. To me personally, as an expatriate I found The President’s actions to be despicable and somewhat desperate.

These are just two of the topics people were marching about, but there were hundreds  and thousands of people that were there this weekend with their own personal reasons, whether it be the dreamers, victims of sexual harassment, equal pay, abortion rights, the travel ban… It is safe to say that the majority of Americans are fed up and frustrated by all of this. Whatever personal reason brought them to this march on this gorgeous January day, they all joined forces to make their voices heard, which to me as an expatriate and observer is the fundamental principal of living in a democratic country.

This President seems to live in his own reality TV show. There was in excess of more  than 120,000 people in the streets of NY according to the Mayor’s office this weekend. You could feel that people were feeling empowered and feeling that energy was an amazing experience. People were festive, energized and excited even while they were protesting against very serious issues. Everybody look like they were happy to be able to meet and share with people of similar points of view. Walking to the crowd, you could feel the combine strength of all these people as they gathered along Central Park West on a massive display of unity.

I don’t like big crowds and honestly I’ve never been a rally or a protest before. This march was a first for me and the fact that I was in my adoptive country made it that much more special and educational. Since Trump got elected, listening to the news on a daily basis can be exhausting. How can a man like him rise to the level of the Presidency in the leading democracy in the world? What kind of example are American settings for the rest of the world? How can somebody accused of sexual harassment by over 10 women actually be elected President? The United States of America is the country that represent the American Dream.  The idea that if you work hard enough and play by the rules, anything can be possible, unfortunately it feels over the last year that ideal has change. I felt pride taking part in this demonstration with the other American citizens, expressing themselves and demanding to be heard. It is apparent somebody is trying very hard to divide us, whether it is along religion, ethnicity or politics. It felt good to stand with other people and take pride in our unified voices. Some pictures I took speaks volumes for themselves, please take a moment to look into the faces of these people, read some of their signs and maybe not feel so alone and frustrated. I’m glad I went.



Black Friday, how to start your holiday season

For the uninitiated, the term Black Friday refers to the day after Thanksgiving. It traditionally kicks off the Holiday season. People line up in the cold and dark outside of the major retailers in the hopes of being in a good position (when the doors open before dawn) to take advantage of all the crazy sales. If you are determined enough, you can find savings anywhere, from 20% to as much as 60% off. Unfortunately, you will have to spend of your Thanksgiving on a long line with total strangers, freezing your butt off. In some cases, you might even have to fight with someone to take that special stuffed Elmo you needed so badly.  All of this seems so cliché, yet the temptation of savings is very great.

I’m a woman who can’t say no to great deals. I worked very hard all year, saved as much as I could for this very specific day and kind of prepared myself for all of the insanity. Unfortunately, this year, I got the flu and it was impossible for me to get out of the house with a fever to line up for hours in freezing weather. I admire those people for their patience, courage and tenacity, but I personally had to pass on it.

This year, I went shopping online (I’m so thankful for the internet), and was able to get almost everything that was on my list. I got a backpack for my husband that was worth 130$ and paid 50$ which I consider one of my biggest shopping success this year. I also bought a dog bed worth 120$ and paid 60$ and a winter coat that was worth 150$ for 80$ to name just a few… Needless to say that this shopping addict was feeling pretty good. After a little research I realized that the online sales were not as good as on site sales. Obviously retailers are trying to inspire people to come to their stores instead of shopping online.. Is there a big difference?

Over the last few years, the growing trend as been toward shopping online. The overall convenience combines with the saving as made it hard to resist. However, with the brick and mortar stores facing real threats from this, the retailers are now trying very hard to lure their customers back. For me personally, I could not go to my shopping mission this year. However, the fact that I was sick in bed, and was still able to get everything I needed without leaving my bedroom at significant savings speaks for itself.

Balck Friday mania doesn’t only happen in the U.S. Countries like Canada, France, United Kingdom and Mexico… to name just a few.

In 2010, Small Business Saturday, was founded to help promote local businesses and communities. The idea is dedicated to promoting and supporting community businesses.  Also, the following Monday, there is something called « Cyber Monday ». Which is like black friday but online. You’ll probably find kind of the same deals than during black Friday.

Did you ever experience Black Friday in NYC? what was the craziest deal you found?